How to Prepare for the Worst
Suppose you lost your job, your health or your spouse. Could you cope? Would you end up broke? Los Angeles Times columnist Kathy Kristof recently posed these questions in AARP magazine, writing that with the economy on life support it's time to stress-test our finances.
Are you prepared for a life crisis? Statistically speaking, if you haven't already faced at least one life crisis, you will. Every year, millions of us face a fateful turn of events: an illness, divorce, disability, job loss or a death in the family. For many, the results are worsened by financial pressures.
A new survey sponsored by AARP Financial examined adults ages 40 through 79 and gave results that most of us are overconfident before trouble strikes and left shaken afterward.
Kristof has a plan of attack in the form of "must-dos" that each of us should consider before a life crisis comes our way:
Imagine the worst. What if a job loss wiped out half of your income? Could you make it? Start living right now as if that has already happened, in the same way you would practice a "fire drill."
Save already! Stop spending all you earn. If you're dipping into your retirement accounts to get by or eyeing your home's equity, stop! Instead, scale way back. Save as if your life depends on it. Job loss comes without warning. You need enough money in the bank to make it until you land your next job.
Work your network. Kristof's research finds that the people who best survive when the worst happens are those who are not too proud to seek help within their personal networks. Foster your relationships now.
Cover your assets. Stop thinking that bad things only happen to others. You are vulnerable, like everyone else. Your most important asset is your earning power. The only way to protect that is with insurance. Your chances of being disabled are greater than of dying, in most cases. Check with your employer to see if disability insurance is a benefit available to you. If not, shop for an individual policy.
Be an equal partner. Defending against divorce is a touchy subject, particularly if you are in a marriage with wealth to protect. For most, the safeguard against an ugly divorce is developing the good habits of budgeting and investing together, says Kristof. These activities teach couples not to fight over money. If divorce happens, the history of sharing money decisions will help.
Prepare to act. If you suffer the death of your spouse, you will be shell-shocked. Learn now how to run your spouse's business. Have a back up plan as part of your estate planning. Know the very first thing you should do in an emergency so you will be able to do it from rote. Having a checklist to guide you will be a great comfort. You need to have the ability to act, not freeze, when you face a crisis.
It's easy to take life for granted when everything is going well. The best thing you can do is to be grateful for this time in your life while also preparing for the worst. It may never happen, but if it does, you'll be especially grateful that you did.
I thought I would share this with my readers, as it has some excellent advice. So, how would you do? I think, if I lost my job, we would be ok. But if my husband lost his, well we have a long way to go to be prepared for that!